Update reddit aita Thanks! I will look into her. 2023 Hey guys, I guess you can call that an update for the update, just felt like I want to let you know how things are going. Posted by u/Ok-Mycologist-5618 - 2,717 votes and 205 comments So, there's my update. We did explain it to her, she knows in child friendly terms. If she tries to escalate, get a restraining order against her for your entire family. 9K votes, 75 comments. Or check it out in the app stores UPDATE: AITA for insulting my father’s girlfriend and telling her to get out of our lives. My update to AITA for telling my aunt not to tell my son a lie about who his father is . I also read it to my 70-year-old mom who didn’t know what Reddit is or what jorts are but loves cats, and she laughed so hard she cried and now loves Jean and Jorts with all her heart, too. From just reading OP’s update, it appears that the parents appear to have issues with counseling or therapy of any kind—given their reaction to OP’s requirement that they all go through family Posted by u/Remarkable_Bison_690 - 1,270 votes and 34 comments Posted by u/justathrowaway157 - 2,302 votes and 84 comments UPDATE: AITA for not letting my sister stay with us after how she explained her job to my 14 year old daughter? UPDATE EDIT: Original post. A lot of what she did is not suited to be heard by a young kid (there a lot of bad blood/other stuff, she knows the basics, espically what happened in the post), I am still not the Original Poster. Posted by u/mjot_007 - 1,895 votes and 69 comments In your first comment (before I saw the update link) I was going to tell you I wouldn’t hop on the “reddit divorce wagon” just yet, but to actually have a conversation. UPDATE I want to thank you all for the responses, especially for the wedding invites. The MiL should feel mortified over what she did. Posted by u/Usual-Earth-1935 - 4,298 votes and 188 comments It has been a little under 2 months and I have received quite a few requests to make an update over the past 9 or so weeks, looking at you SnooChipmunks3950 , at first I was going to make one a week or 3 ago but I decided against it and instead chose to wait till I had some proper updates, but well, here goes. UPDATE: AITA for refusing to let my daughter get a surgery? UPDATE Link to the original post. There might be a reason the school feel it’s a good way to teach. He's done this for five years without changing despite knowing in no uncertain terms that you do not want to be involved. Trigger Warning: creepy online comments about a minor, unwanted filming Mood Spoiler: Ridiculous that it got that far, but relatively happy ending for OOP Original Post: December 21, 2022 Create customizable feeds of Reddit content from multiple different communities and topics. I had a sit down with my parents and had a big talk about my feelings. it's also possible that Kyle was on his best behavior when it was every other week, but now that he was spending all his time with OP, he started to get comfortable enough to misbehave. Op I saw the original post because this update showed up on my tl. After thinking about it for a while I had decided to meet her and was going to tell my uncle to set up a meeting with her but before I could tell him, my uncle called me again, 3 days after my mom showed up at his house. A beautiful white dress, walk the aisle right after the bride, with an EXUBERANT amount of lace, then get a water gun filled with wine from the skirt, squirt the happy couple, then twist like Katniss Everdeen revealing a RED DRESS AS THE WHITE ONE BURNS, op is still spinning. I was ripped to shreds in the comments, and deservedly so. Final update: I can't post any further updates on 2021-09-08 15:50:11 Update: AITA for refusing to walk my daughter down the aisle? herweddingday_ 16066 S x 25 G 2021-09-08 15:50:11 She always does Aita posts. Situations are far more complex than a few paragraphs on Reddit can cover. Thank you everyone for all the feed back, positivity, acceptance and some laughs from some comments. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Its been a wild few days. . He probably felt desperate. We aren't here. AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. Happy news, everyone. If your post meets the outlined guidelines, please message the mods for approval. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might the asshole because I argued with her about paying and should’ve just paid when asked to because they did grocery shop out of their pocket Never understood the "are we exclusive talk". In the past few days it had been drama free, with some today. Original Post: Here. UPDATE: My aunt has decided to take them to court for custody and I don't think they'll put up much of a fight for it. The outpouring of support was both shocking and overwhelmingly UPDATE: AITA for "ruining" a baby name? UPDATE Hey, Reddit! Thank you for all your feedback and advice on my original post. He posted in r/AmItheAsshole and his own page. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. UPDATE First of all thank you for all the comments on my original post. UPDATE: AITA for telling people that I wasn't invited to a wedding . The existence of something we could recognize as a computer would be rather iffy. On the bright side, I saw how my fiance's family really like me because of this ordeal. There was actually a lot to talk about, because she had a lot of thoughts and feelings. I had to delete the Reddit account I had for three years (because of a troubled former coworker, ironically) and I don’t do much with my current this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. UPDATE: AITA for telling my cousin I'm not having a child free wedding, her daughter just isn't invited . That is u/aitathrowaway180123. Hi, again! It's been half a year, so I figured I'd give you all an update. I commented to that post to report to police and get relatives on their side. You can find the previous BORU post here. get reddit premium. previous post here Edit: Update posted here since i can't post it separately now Relative has been bothering me for a week now non stop everyday. To vote on your favorite, upvote the top-level comment that contains the link. 6. Update: AITA for telling my Ex-Wife's Fiancee the truth about our divorce? The craziest one that happened to me was years and years ago. Good thing you two dads talked it out rationally, like 2 adults should. For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair. I tried to post an update through the AITA subreddit but it wouldn't let me. If you accuse someone of something, threaten them, harass them, then find out that - oops! - they were actually innocent the whole time, then you fucking apologise and beg their forgiveness. Posted by u/throwaway99885758 - 21,835 votes and 711 comments this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Or check it out in the app stores UPDATE: AITA for getting my aunt and uncle kicked out of their house for not letting my husband and I sleep together? My husband and I wanna thank everyone for the overwhelming amount of support and love! We have updates. Like, husband says daughters not paying rent or contributing to thr household 6. It was hard and I broke down on Sunday because even though I know my son loves me and that he’s just angry, hearing him say that he wishes I wasn’t his mother UPDATE- AITA for interrupting my son's date so he could pick up his little sister? UPDATE Hello all, thank you very much for the comments left on my post, spent a good hour going through threads and seeing what everyone had to say. You are a wonderful daughter and sister to make sure your mother is taken care of and give your siblings the chance to grow up and get an education. First of all I want to thank all the people who left comments and judgements. Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. Posted by u/thrownaway20512 - 4,699 votes and 252 comments UPDATE: AITA For Not Letting My Sister Walk Down The Aisle At My Wedding . I love a happy update! I'm on Zepbound. UPDATE: AITA for not cooking thanksgiving dinner and spending the day at the beach instead ? Excuse typos currently enjoying the small 4 pack of Woodbridge wine while watching The Crown with my husband by his bedside, more on that later. It doesn’t make him straight, gay, asexual, non-binary, or trans. Emma has disappeared. You could have not gotten involved or said no- but you chose to be his Dad to a child who needs you- says a LOT about you and the kind of person you are. Yeah, if you haven't eaten meat in a really long time, your body apparently stops being able to process those proteins. Polly and I had an epic time in Hawaii and she’s already talking about wanting to go back. I kept my word. His was just trying WOW! What a great update! People get so much advise when they ask AITA here. Number of updates: - Short Original August 25, 2020 Update September 22, 2020 (about one month later) Original August 25, 2020 Ok, I get the title sounds horrible. I changed letters to names for readability To be honest, I almost decided not to post an update. Never be afraid to ask for help with a problem! I think in my life I have had one person that said "no" when I this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Read our update guidelines here. I finally have some time to myself and thought I should give you this final update. Even if she stayed to give you the space you asked for, there’s no way I would be able to enjoy the trip after my unhappy partner left. It’s also incomplete but enough people asked me for an update that I felt I owed it to you guys. I’ve been getting a lot of mean messages saying really cruel things about my Sounds like my ex, same thing. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my estranged sister and For some good news, and also the thing that reminded me to update my reddit post, is that yesterday I bought another house, one for me to live in. Most good, some bad and often thoughtful. It ended up on Twitter. But, hear me out. First of all, I want to clarify that I never told Becca not to name her daughter Narina. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. UPDATE AITA for not attending my best friend's wedding? UPDATE Hi everyone! This is an update to my previous post, which you can find on my profile. And honestly you did the best you could, and got better/got help for your demons as soon as you could. Appreciate all the words and advice on my last post There has been some new changes regarding the situation that happened before with my sister and Annie so decided to leave a little update. Read the best updates by redditors and find out what happened after their original post. I wrote the previous BORU posts here and here. So I met with the wife and wow it was interesting. Please update us again as things progress. [UPDATE 3] AITA for cutting contact with my childhood best friend because she demanded that I break up with my fiancé? UPDATE: AITA for “hiding” my saving from my fiancé My fiancé and I have spent the last week talking a lot about this. Bigger issues rose to the surface in marriage counselling and wife did apologise for keeping me out of the delivery room, although she affirmed in the same sentence that if we have a second child, she’d ask me to stay outside again. Wow. Reply reply 25K votes, 413 comments. I spoke with my sister in the early morning while my daughter was still asleep. She posted in r/AmItheAsshole, r/motherinlawsfromhell and her own page. Sorry this update took a few days, I'm still reeling from everything that happened. This x1,000,000. There would also be no you, no me, and no one else sitting here reading reddit. Turns out when my ex-fiancée and What you need to do is tell your brother that wearing makeup doesn’t define who he his. Called the pitbull at work by her older male coworkers who send her at the most difficult undercontractors (she works at the traffic office, building roads, tunnels, that sort of thing). A tiny little brick postwar brick ranch in an old subdivision about 20 minutes from my rentals. The reason your relatives are giving you grief is because (i) they're afraid that they'll be asked to close the gap you left when you stopped, either by babysitting directly, or be contributing towards childcare costs. Bad updates The girl I feel she is having a emotional affair with and my gf want to extent their walks from 30 minutes (ends up being an hour out as it's a 30 minute drive) to 1 hour walking They were on the phone the other day and I heard my partner say "if you don't behave I'm on gonna have to spank you I do it to blah (me)" I stepped in and Update: AITA for setting boundaries with my stepson . JFC this is Reddit not a professional counseling situation. I'm more angry at the MiL than the ex tbh. Posted by u/Sea-Mycologist-9715 - 447 votes and 92 comments There's another AITA post from today where people are jumping to wild conclusions that you can't possibly infer from what OP wrote, but I don't think even the most conspiracy minded would've come up with this scenario lol. To nominate a post, make a top-level comment with the link to the post. 1K votes, 173 comments. UPDATE. ” I think someone commented on your last post that it’s clear “we” didn’t include you. If you request access, we'll assume you don't read subreddit information and ban you. gg/Hx2hym2juy Members Online Some ask me for an update, so here it is. Where I'm from it's just assumed when you start hanging out that way. Thank you To everyone who responded to my post. Some things on AITA are so intense and never get a resolution so it's nice to see one get a Hi, I know it’s only been a few days since I last posted, but some things happened and I’ve decided to rinse my hands of the situation, so I thought I’d provide you all with an update. UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? UPDATE Original here. Update: AITA for letting my (32f) husband (30m) feel emasculated? - original removed I recently saw a aita posts about illegal child marriage ( the girl was 17 years old and occurred in US). We are a product of our history, and our parents history. This is a great update! Seems like all the parents got onboard to show silly teenagers that their words hurt. UPDATE: AITA for telling my ex that she's replacing our daughter with her new family? NEW UPDATE Personally with as many wild stories as ive read all over reddit in thr last few years, im betting Rileys husband was the instigator on the fact she went nuclear. UPDATE Hello everyone, I just wanted to post an update on the situation with my sister, Stacy. The general consensus was, yes, that I am the asshole, and it just went downhill from there. People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. Not all kids needing a home come with trust funds, and not being able to provide essentials is a very very valid reason. Overbearing parents train their kids to be compliant. That is u/Crafty-Appeal7248. There are too many comments on Reddit about parents being called out for expecting their kids to help out I’m new to Reddit and don’t know how awards work yet so will have to instead put my hand over my heart, bow down, and send you heartfelt wishes for an amazing, treasure-filled, loving, beautiful, peaceful, and glorious life. One of the redditor said, US didn't Ban child marriage as a whole country , only in 5 states they banned it. I've been with him long enough to know that when he goes and closes the bedroom door before I get in that's a signal that I should sleep in one of the UPDATE: AITA for telling my mom that my sister was a better mother than her . I have a 12 yr old son and a 13month old. Just not the majority of churches you hear about on Reddit/the Posted by u/throwaway2728124 - 591 votes and 54 comments I am still not the Original Poster. During the week with talk to our kids and asked them (without being obvious) how they have been treated by their grandparents; we got positive Heres some highlights from the update that really show how awful she was (Even if she might have actually changed) "She said she was going through some relationship issues It's been a few months since I initially posted, so here's an update on how my life's going. Yet she said “we all had fun and it was memorable. To people asking Oh shit, I didn’t even connect those dots. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Not everyone is - but heard it earlier then read your update- seems to kinda fit at least some of how you and your son came to be. This update is obviously LONG overdue but things have been intense the past few years so I forgot about this account for a long time. A few months ago, I posted this post asking if I was an asshole for not wanting to take my girlfriend out to restaurants. & took peoples advice on how to speak to him about it. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. I The guy deleted the post, so here’s a copy from the reddit bot. but there are plenty of times saying you can't be a guardian because of financial issues is legit. I'm so glad that wasn't the case at all. a community for 1 year. I just told her what it meant in Portuguese, and only because my son laughed (again, this wasn't his fault). 1. And it wouldve led to the exact same hellish situation. Ngl, I feel anxious about it Update 2 : 1/10/2023 Wife and I separated for a couple months but decided to work on our marriage. I was worried at first that his dad was going to brush this off. Here is the AITA board’s description: Update: AITA for telling my girlfriend that being depressed is not an excuse for being lazy? In this post, a 29-year-old man It would be far better to put it in a stock market index fund. So yes, I'm guessing that OP can expect to be woken up every morning not by alarms but by text Get an ad-free experience with special benefits, and directly support Reddit. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. She's hired an amazing nanny that all the kids love and (while it's really hard) I'm trying to stop parenting my siblings and be their sister instead. Reddit really came through with some solid advice, as always. First, I no longer feel bad about making my dad leave the meet-up - since he somehow reconciled AITA for cutting my dad's favourite shirt in half with scissors during an argument when he told me I'm not his daughter? *****Final Update: November 23, 2023 (4 months later)****\* I realized I forgot to do an update. It's all of reddit/anywhere people without personal stakes can post, I think. I I'm going to to against the popular Reddit narrative here, but don't worry so much about the race issue. #9: Update: AITA for telling my girlfriend that being depressed is not Thanks for the update! Seriously - block your sister on every form of social media and other contact you have. Seems like they want to have you as part of the family and truly want to make amends for what happened to you. gives credit, links the Reddit post , & reads the comments & updates & gives her honest opinion , I love her. Original Post Here: AITA for skipping New Years Eve at my child free sisters? : AmItheAsshole (reddit. The boyfriend was an ass. Your original post and this update have made my night. Update: AITA for kicking out my MIL in the middle of the night? Original Post. Like spraying a pet with a spray bottle if they do something you don't like, overbearing parents train their kids to be compliant by being absolute pains in the ass if You didn’t become a mother at the right time for YOU, but you were the mother at the right time for HIM. It was last month when my therapist suggested I should do it because this is where me breaking off from them started. I'm Latino, my parents are white. Even for the ones which deemed me the ah. Keep movin’ & best of luck!! Update us when you graduate (or let us know how the trade route goes) or update us once you finish the semester. Glad my siblings and I know when to mind our business and what loyalty means. 1. It's pretty obvious when it's not just as friends. There probably would be no reddit. this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Good for you for respecting the needs of your children. Thank you all for your support. People shared it to Facebook. We're not very well off. They both did, and she told me her husband and our Look, don’t take the word of armchair Reddit experts (include me in that too!) on your daughters school needs. I tried to respond to all of them but after the 100th comment it became hard to keep up but I did read all of them :) Thank you OP for I am still not the Original Poster. Eh, I agree with you here. The guy was just someone with a clipboard at a mall trying to get people to sign up for something. We appreciate your patience while mods review for approval. com) So earlier today, I finally talked to my sister. Yes, God absolutely could create a universe where there was no pain. I showed her the Reddit post, and she started crying, and asked her husband and my fiancé to step out for a few minutes. Mama's boy and I was never accepted due to being a different nationality. The downvotes on my question show that reddit is a mostly American platform. this isn’t worth it” to switch out Dave. Wishing you all the best for the wedding, and kudos to the fiance for taking a stand against the toxic behavior. Thanks again for the support my original post got. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. I am thankful to the mods on a ita for doing that and giving me resources to calm myself down, the dms I was getting were giving me very unhealthy Everything you have said is wrong. true. The newest update is marked with *****. What makes him ANY of those is what In the update, we discover the real reason behind the apparent overreaction and are a little relieved for everyone’s safety. 5 years into a relationship, you deserved more consideration. Don't request access. I'm honestly very happy here, I've been studying like crazy though the material is interesting so it's OK. What is it about such people having kids that makes such people need to be the star Posted by u/Careless-Hornet-4343 - 5,758 votes and 362 comments UPDATE AITA for not sharing my medical history before being pranked? UPDATE With me, it took the power of reddit for me to identify problems in my life. 152 votes, 183 comments. Good for your sister. 1,848 users here now. 1K votes, 238 comments. AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC join leave 115,119 readers. For more information about the protest, see r/Save3rdPartyApps Posted by u/rkglsjfj - 37,724 votes and 1,244 comments For that, we need Reddit. First things first, I want to thank each and everyone of you who commented, voted, and gave their feedback and advice. UPDATE- AITA for rolling my eyes at my boyfriend's proposal because it took 25 years of me begging? At the time of my original post, my boyfriend and I had not spoken since the engagement fight. It needs work but I'm looking forward to having a prjoect to take my mind off things. MODERATORS. Thank you to everyone who voted NTA because I was really conflicted or a few days after the incident and I also agree that I 15K votes, 439 comments. So i decided to follow what you guys said and remove the parts I've bought, and install a 5400 rpm hard disk instead of the one which came with her laptop (I've had one laying in my closet) and decreased the ram from It looks like you're trying to post an update to your AITA post. But before I start, I just wanted to say I’m sorry if I sounded a bit defensive in my replies. New Update marked with ***** Thank you so much to u/camrynbronk for letting me know about the update!. Join the BORU discord server: https://discord. Yes, as with all medications, there are risks, but it is such an assist in that it levels the playing field for those with food addictions--your wife will still get hungry and she will still need to diet and exercise to lose weight, but she will have a little more willpower and rational thinking on her side when it comes to sticking to these things. Sister is upset due to complicated family dynamic. You can do research on educational options from deaf associations outside of school, they will be able to give you information and support on what methods there are Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I pointed out how my cousin brought her kid to a “no kid” wedding and now my sister is mad at me. Many of you were right about my sister’s negativity possibly affecting the relationship between Annie and Jack. one of the stories my dad likes to tell about one of us kids (I forget who, it could be anyone) is how he came to pick them up from visiting family and they were super glad to be coming home Before i get into this, no my sister isn’t special needs, if she were this would’ve been a completely different situation. UPDATE: AITA for being very harsh? UPDATE Hi, I just wanted to make this post before I move on. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. Although I'm dissapointed I'm turning down some wagyu steak, so you all owe me one haha. Press J to jump to the feed. He is still living with Dad and has savings so he is not worried about that AITA *** UPDATE*** to my ex husband demanding I change my last name back to my maiden name per his fiancées request. I'll keep it short so I won't reach the limit. When we started talking I told her about the post very quickly. UPDATE: AITA for wanting to participate even though I'm not going to win? Final update: AITA for pressing charges against racist MIL and leaving hubs for siding with her? This will be my final post. UPDATE - AITA for telling my friend she needs a life of her own and she has to stop leeching off of mine? UPDATE Original post: I sincerely wish OP much happiness and only healthy relationships. I thought I was doing the most I could but now I know I'm not. I have not heard from her since the phone call and she stopped showing up Posted by u/No-Hearing6229 - 14,991 votes and 231 comments 13K votes, 368 comments. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here Update Post: October 1, 2023 (2 days later) Apologies for posting this on my main page. It truly means the world to me. This isn’t the happiest update but not the worst either. Sam is doing well, he is taking time off work, his boss is very understanding about him needing time and told him he can always come back there. But it’s wild to me that it took your AP saying “wtf. Scroll through Reddit and you'll hear all about the women expected to care for their aging parents/in-laws or the girls expected to take on the care for their disabled siblings. Drug abuse and drugs as a solution for everything in a country torn apart by an opiod crisis and with its first solution to a child that maybe wants to be curious and walk around a bit being diagnosed with ADHD in no time and pumped full of Ritalin should not surprise Also, the fact that the way the original post is worded twin sons(4M) starting a fight because when one of them has something the other one gets jealous so I ran to put a stop to them because they might break it when I went there I saw Sarah and my dad just sitting on the sofa so I asked them what happened and they told me they feel the attention has been shifted from them So AITA? For those who will say I could’ve gotten it out myself- yes your right I should’ve gotten it out myself earlier in the day- but it slipped my mind dealing with the kids & I was busy with the kids when I asked him to get the chicken from the freezer. There's a lot of, quite frankly, racist commentary about it. What an uncompromisingly shit human being she is. UPDATE First post: https: (or be on reddit *averts eyes*) and my mom is not that super clingy, she's just a high contact person while I am naturally a very LC person. Hi everyone, I just wanted to update you all as a lot of you seemed concerned. We started talking about it the day after my post. It doesn't affect the commenter, so they feel they can make a full judgement of someone's entire life/relationship and suggest life altering decisions without consequence. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Anyway, I checked the last update and I can’t believe it was only in early November! I have mainly good updates for you. StitchyGirl 1 147d4h51m. INCONCLUSIVE I've been getting dms on this account asking for an update since my first post got removed. I told her I would meet in a coffee shop, with my wife, and I also recorded the conversation just in case. It was my translation Posted by u/Rainbow62993 - 3,980 votes and 173 comments UPDATE: AITA for telling my dad it’s his fault I raised my brother? UPDATE This Random potato on Reddit is proud of you. 25%. Thank you for the update. Current "high yield" savings accounts are paying around 1%/year. We were together 7 years and he got into heavy drugs and became abusive towards the end of our relationship. UPDATE Several of you have asked for an update on my ex husband giving me a year to change my last name back to my maiden name because his fiancee was uncomfortable with her and I having the same last name. First though, I do want to thank you for your feedback, it was nice to be reassured that I wasn’t being overly mean, as that’s what I was mainly Posted by u/Substantial-Emu-7247 - 280 votes and 49 comments You can legally quit however you want, but if your goal is to maintain a reference (the general reason behind a notice) there is no company that is going to view the above any differently than just giving a 3-5 day notice outright as the point is having the work being done while they get the ball rolling on finding a replacement (in theory). New update marked with *****. ¡Updateme UPDATE: AITA for not wanting to take in my (19f) cousin (4m) UPDATE Update: EDIT: I know I'm a bad cousin and I feel really guilty. I explained to her how much it is important to me that she talks to my daughter about the risks of her job because she would Its an even bigger shame when a parent tries to force their pregnant daughter to have a conversation with verbally abusive husband of 10 years after he physically harasses said pregnant daughter and those 2 forced attempts to "clear the air" lead to 2 more physically harassing incidents in her presence, and instead of letting her visibly upset pregnant daughter leave the Hi AITA, I posted here 3 years ago. 8K votes, 457 comments. CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. I recently read this post on r/Divorce: Great update. The wedding went off this past weekend,and not only did my wife's cousin not get married on our Well done! you did the right thing. You wanted to seek opinions from a bunch of strangers on Reddit so your husband has the right to do the same with his family. We’re all here cheering you on! Honestly I’m glad that you got your stuff back. 16K votes, 537 comments. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. What do 2 siblings or dad have to do with the situation? Her bio mom already pushed her into homelessness had Alannah’s family not been understanding. Posted by u/Kitchen_Celery3806 - 6,176 votes and 101 comments Onto the update, A lot of you told me to meet her for closure, while others said not to bother. That is u/whoevenisthat5. No beach house no matter what my ex, his wife and my son said about me. I feel like the fact that they still offered to be co-signers on a new account AFTER they got angry, demanded access to the account, then threatened to trash the computer when they didn't get access shows that they still want to control her and her money, especially after they didn't offer to pay her back for the money they "forgot" about because let's be clear: they stole it. A little bit more than a year ago, I asked for advice on how to deal with my stepson. For those who haven’t read the post: I didn’t feel like my stepson was respecting my authority after I imposed overly just make sure that part of your civil divorce settlement includes a requirement for him to give you a get (Jewish religious divorce for gentiles reading this; link provided for more info) as well as require him to use Jooneh's new name and respect pronouns. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Small Update: I've set up a meeting with the counselor next week while my dad is out in California. She should feel deeply ashamed of herself. It isn’t a grand update but to answer the most asked questions, yes my sister did go to school and the two girls didn’t want to talk to her and one girl apparently posted about my sister on snapchat and told everyone about how she acted which caused other kids to People on Reddit can egg you on and tell you that you did the right thing but you have to live with the consequences when you log off. One of the most horrible this I have read on reddit. I remembered it while browsing some other subreddits & thought I would share my update because things are better than I ever thought they could be back in 2020. You’ve done so well looking after him and I’m glad you talked to your dad and set things out straight for what your life the past 7 years has actually consisted of. I am a UPDATE for AITA for how I responded to a "friend" at my friend's birthday dinner? UPDATE I know some time has passed since I wrote my post (link: https: So many parents on Reddit feeling abused by parenthood while also feeling uber virtuous for having kids. Since inception (1923 - present), the return in the stock market is 12. update A week ago, I made a post about how my wife got angry at me for not sleeping on the couch after her friend accused me of hitting on her. " Concluded: No update since 2020 Originally posted in r/AmItheAsshole by u/No-Zucchini4614. This is something that after it’s been talked Good for you for giving them another shot - the fact that they seemed better prepared suggests they got some good advice as well. My sister is like that too. AITA? Relevant Comments: Who is the mom here? "My baby brother calls me Mom now so honestly maybe I am the mother lol" Can you go live with your dad? I want to be a lawyer, I know I can do it. Trigger Warning: Racism, xenophobia Mood Spoiler: Frustrating and somewhat sad UPDATE: AITA For Wanting To Divorce My Husband For Wanting A Son? I didn't expect to have an update so soon, but after reading everyone's comments I decided to take action immediately and went to my brother's house. 5. We talked for hours through the night and came up with a plan. Couldn’t figure how to post as an update so just posting as an edit here. Thanks you. AITA for telling my mom that she's doesn't get to make the rules? I (17M) live with my three brothers (15M, 13M, 10M), and my ma (40F). So Reddit, AITA? Tldr: I didn’t know sister was pregnant and made the first pregnancy announcement. Rick is totally a jealous abusive asshole, literally only an abuser (or seriously mentally ill person) would be simultaneously jealous of OP for “having her first” like ten fucking years ago AND still feel entitled to using his place. Half the time they aren't even retelling it themselves— there are other accounts that recount the stories then do a podcast like discussion about who exactly is the asshole, and a lot of the time they're just grabbing the audio portion where they tell the tell the story and cut the rest out. It's really popular on Reddit to oppose whites adopting non whites. In all honestly if i had the guts i probably would have done this too at your age, I was in similar circumstances. It blew up. I like reading AITA and other subreddits, but man, it's bad. If you know you can't take care of a kid, it's no kindness to him to UPDATE: AITA for insisting that my in-laws buy my daughter a new doll? UPDATE We've gone private to protest Reddit's proposed changes to the API. He's not going to change now, and if he does, it's not of his own volition and he's going to resent you for "making him give up his friends. I can’t tell you how glad I am to see that you got some advise that helped you deal with your situation in a really positive way. She posted in r/AmItheAsshole and her own page. Who knew I could get so much support from Reddit :) *****Update Post 2: August 21, 2023 (1 week from last post)***** So, I have some good news, I UPDATE: AITA for saying I’ll not attend the family Christmas since I can’t afford it . UPDATE: I cooked dinner. Thank you for making me see the truth reddit. UPDATE 1- March 15, 2022: A lot of people have asked for updates so here it is. UPDATE One of many things I've learned on reddit (especially AITA) is that entitled people have no problem assigning roles in other people's EDIT: 2. A few things to address, To be honest I was pissed at my sisters rule. Stay strong! this subreddit is for a podcast called reddit on wiki, that reads reddit stories. Thank you and your whole team (including Jean, Jorts, and Pam) for the valuable work you do. UPDATE Original post. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Celiac and vegetarian here. Well, not too long after the arguments, we eventually confronted said friend, only for another argument to break out, this time between my wife and her friend. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. ixitmbog tecf rcti rsmslds rguwr wwfux ciagm czis uhp jcclyf