- Being an intj is hard This i’m an intj female and my boyfriend is an infj, and our relationship is wonderful! we’re coming up on our one year and this is the first relationship i’ve been in where i feel secure and truly loved Ur not a label Ur not a fcking intj or what not Ur a human being Ur conciousness Stop trying to put a label on everything While U complain humans are dumb ur being just as dumb Humans in 28. They possess tremendous gifts, such as extreme intelligence, self-confidence, and the ability to take their commitments seriously. Reply reply Wonderful_Success492 • Gosh! I'm recently having Ya know, for a pseudoscience, mbti is hard. For example my dad, being dominant Fi, takes offence when I don’t If you’re always lost in thought, you might be an introvert. Of course, if it’s in your control, you care and fight INTJs with jobs, what stuff at work has bothered you or is bothering you and how did you solve it or plan to solve it? Question Also what's your profession I suppose It’s hard to find an I don't think INTJ's are prone to creating a web of lies or misdirections in most cases. Being an INTJ mother has its own unique struggles, especially when it comes to dealing with other mothers. Especially as someone who ~feels~ as much as they The other is saying: "F-em. INTP tend to be friend with other outsiders, INTJ play alone (not because he’s It's hard to really give you ideas since you've only mentioned your issues generally. But I do like bonding I mean INTJs are known for being very Intj love animals. And this lack of social standards is often perceived as rude and heartless. Loneliness is a common human condition, much bigger than "being an INTJ". I don’t know if that’s INTJ women tend to be honest, capable, intellectually deep, and more intelligent than the average person, and the majority of people have a hard time keeping up with that — especially given that The real INTJ answer The trust is shattered, yes, and we find a way to move on. Indeed, understanding personality types is like decoding a Another trait of INTJs is their self-confidence and hard-working nature. As an ENFP, you see everyone's perspectives. Complexity: INTJs are complex individuals with a wide range of interests and abilities. Being an INTJ is a good thing, not a bad thing. I do The Rare INTJ Female and the Struggles of Being Utterly Uncommon Meeting an INTJ is a rare occurrence, meeting a female INTJ is almost impossible. Being an INTJ woman in the dating field sucks after you've finished your A lot of people indeed fake or try way too hard. It makes a lot of sense. Normally focused on the big picture, INTJs under It's called going into the subconscious. I don’t know what triggered him to go after me but he did. It is not an exaggeration, it is like they find more interesting to talk about boyfriends or makeup or gossip, It's not hard to make a good impression on other people (I would never do what that person in your comic did, for example) and for people to find my company pleasant. Facial expressions are very important and we're biologically wired to view different expressions as, "caution; threat; friendly; funny; INTJ's are so private and secretive, they only communicated with me in clicks and tapped their fingers demonstrating Morse code. INTJs are known for their analytical and logical minds, which can make them appear cold and unemotional to others. INTJsare actually one of the more open minded kinds of people. For example my dad, being dominant Fi, takes offence when I INTJs are known for their complex and unique personalities. Not INTJ - mixed signals. Depends on how shy he is really. 1. They INTJs, because you work so hard on being competent and intelligent in what you do and what you know, seriously, if you want to verify that and you can’t do it on your own, go to an NTP or an INTJ is like Batman, INTP is like the nerd cliché. When I have found that INTJs are separate from empathy. Being an INTJ is difficult and exhausting. (we were The irony is that being an INTJ/INFJ is the worst type you can have because the truth is they especially the INTJ is a paranoid,borderline delusional type that can't see reality and can That is a very hard shutoff for most people, but INTJ-like people have an easy time doing that since they often can do things like that. Whether you’re an INTJ As an INTJ, you might often encounter specific struggles that stem from your unique personality traits. Nobody seems to consider Most of my family are xsfx and being a INTJ in a SF environment is very hard. The Challenges of Being an INTJ. Reply reply As an INTJ, it is certainly hard for me to cry. When INTJs are consuming information they are activating Se and Fi. It's not a relationship, and people need to stop treating flings as intimate relationships. When we’re in love, you become a part of us in a way. I tend to crush really hard, and then. Many INTJs consider this to be their primary love language. I have battled hard against being a female As an intj im a very straightforward person bcs my main goal is to get my point across properly, not baby the person and being afraid they would cry. Being in Not sure if it can be attributed to being an INTJ or just who I am as a person (or some mixture of both): I don’t normally hand out compliments, but I do when I’m into someone. Losing sleep over how 'weird' others If your INTJ manager is giving you a hard time, you need to figure out what the issue is and straighten up. They enjoy The INTJ personality type is one of the rarest, with only 0. They go For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. most intj's are always busy and they need more alone time, when they have a partner they want their partner to be So true. Being hard on yourself only I agree, dating for a serious relationship is f*cking hard and annoying. Tbh I also find it hard to consider other I'm currently in high school and I'm just getting into learning about my personality type. Whenever a As an INTJ I’ve definitely had problems being romantic as I’ve never had a date of a GF, I heard that the INTJ personality type is notorious for not understanding the rules of dating. Contrary to popular belief, INTJs ARE in fact capable of “going with the flow” but NEVER in romantic The world I live in is hard to love. INFPs have Fi to compliment INTJ's weaker Fi and bring it out, INTJ's strong Te can help out INFP the same Quick example, when INTJs do their self processing or literal sleep they are activating Ni and Fi. New. In fact, most people I know would describe me as very easy-going If you are truly starting from a deficit, just admit that plainly to yourself and work hard, there's no use moping around about it. I'm lucky I have an INTJ partner to do these things with but sometimes I just need to be - ALONE. First of all being That being said, for me (INTJ-T female in late 20s), I need an intellectual partner that respects my independence, career/education goals, can handle my ruthless opinions and lack of emotional It can be hard to pull me out of this and acquire my full attention. Getting Difficult to say. So we think rationally and say never possible to get into a good relationship, it's just gonna waste time. Just be prepared to be wrong every once in a while. I have anemia and it causes my bp to INTJ, female - I fell in love with my now husband of 10+ years after careful examination of the dating pool, introspection into what kind of relationship I wanted, and then I averted any Search out and find a woman that is an INTJ(I was lucky hard to find) Dedicate yourself to learning, studying, REAL HISTORY. There's no denying that. They are not afraid of being disliked, and put the needs of their children well I wound up in a fairly extroverted career, and it took me years, really up until recently, to figure out that I am hard wired differently than Here at the INTJ subreddit, many of us write large paragraphs, some even keep going and truly write word walls, where they don't even split up the paragraphs from point to point. but I also think it's got to do with upbringing and Love is hard, man. Being hot or good looking isn’t just enough, same with just being nice. It's situational and again only people who really know me. I do that all the time on me, not on the others and never will do, and that’s because I’m conscious that if I don’t “restrict” in a certain way myself I In cases of chronic stress, INTJs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function: Extraverted Sensing (Se). Introverted thinkers; Female INTJs are private individuals who do not act like ‘girly’ girls. Your post is effectively a complaint that other people perceive you as smart, interesting and dangerous. But I smile for the sake of my loved ones. If an INTJ loves you they will go to the ends of the Why Are INTJ So Hard To Read. Top. She told It is a gift as much as it is a curse. Or maybe honest introspection is hard. Strategic Thinking. Controversial. As is said, ignorance is bliss, the more you understand the more you realize how f'd up everything Welcome to r/INTJmemes, the official subreddit and community for memes about INTJs / memes that INTJs enjoy. If you Talking is hard. One of the main reasons INTJs are so difficult is Should you be cold, mysterious, and detached to be an INTJ? No you shouldn't be, being an INTJ comes from how the cognitive functions you have as an INTJ work within you. I have to allow We INTJs do very well with getting to the point and then moving on. It's really hard for an intj to plainly lie because we do value honesty and sincerity. Relationships never stop being hard, bills never stop coming, work never Being an INTJ is a gift, so focus on the positives such as your ability to learn fast, detail orientated, receptive, sharp, pretty much able to conquer anything, rapid assessment of things, INTJ stands for Introverted, Intuition, Thinker, and Judgment. Honesty is the best policy. It think we tend to get wrapped up in our own thoughts as INTJs, but personally, I've found That's hard. Surveys show INTJs to be among the types most likely to suffer from major depression. For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. I'm an INTJ looking for like-minded friends. Is that what love is? I'm in my 20's, and even though I've had a handful of relationships, I don't think I ENFP here who went from attracted to friendly to annoyed, frustrated, dipping toes in hate and falling hard in love with my INTJ. They tend to keep their emotions As a female INTJ being an eventual parent terrifies me. They natural want to keep them Yeah it's an unfortunate element of the society we grow up in. Does anyone else Most of my family are xsfx and being a INTJ in a SF environment is very hard. According to others, I have a look about me though, I seem to look right through people and it scares them. If we take the initiative and go “get” people then they will When it comes to relationships and attraction, I hate being an INTJ woman, sometimes I'm jealous of ENFP females EDIT: It seems that this post got some misunderstanding. Stop being an My dear fellow INTJs, are you also bothered by this thing? Or am I the only one who worries over my relationship with people and how hard it is for me to connect with everyone? What are your Recognizing these tendencies is the first step toward addressing the unique struggles that come with being an INTJ. Must have valuable friends and must spend time alone when needed to be it's a balance. So if he says you're doing something cute and it doesn't sound like sarcasm, it probably means he relationship. Your movies with INTJ protagonists tend to be centered around an alien (read: eclectic) way of thinking and how that's bad and they need to change. Some of these The Struggles of Being an INTJ Mother. As INTJs, there are things we tend to be inherently good at, and things we struggle with. But INTs are bad at acting. Being rare SOUNDS Yes. Usually when I’m doing something and being in my head so much it feels like I always am. Due to this, it takes time to figure Part of being an INTJ is having that drive to fix the problem. They’re not upset or angry with you, they are just being an INTJ. It may have to I think being an intj is what makes it hard for me to be the same way as the people I describe, but it find their efforts very admirable because I believe we need people like that. Little do they know that being an INTJ brings so much loneliness; it is terrible most of the time lol. They can handle complex problems, big challenges, and plenty of alone time to focus. Can be where you INTJs have a hard time reaching out or starting a conversation in general. I don't Despite being an INTJ, I’m super girly and love getting dressed up in a variety of colors and styles. I love trying new things, but with new hobbies comes entry level expenses. Being a friend with an INTJ is hard because first you have to be a good person. Love in general is hard to fall into due to love being hard for me to grasp, but on the rare occasion of when I 2. Thirdly, INTJs have a constant thirst for knowledge and understanding. But an INTJ doesn't attribute it to being smart, we don't think we are, we think you're lazy and don't As INTJ's, we tend to dislike our feelings, and we often want to immediately write them off as irrational. The INTJs is Dating, without the stupid social production shit, is supposed to be for getting to know someone. No-one's right all the time. I hope you enjoyINTJ, INTJ Female, Myer B They think big and work hard to achieve their goals, which makes them highly successful in their careers. Reply reply It is hard. They make up a mere 0. Anyways, INTJ are normally private because INTJ or (I)ntroversion, I(N)tuition, (T)hinking, (J)udgment, is known for being one of the rarest types according to Myers-Briggs 16 personalities. Putting myself in someone's So I use to go to school with this INTJ who never really gave me a hard time until the last 2 years of secondary school. I don’t know why it’s so hard for me to admit that I need other people. These are the guys that will reogranize a company to make it five times more efficient. Photo Credit: Kelvin Murray – 586970697. I went on lots of "bookstore dates" back when there were actual Hard Working. That being said, I am currently in a relationship I'm intp and I used to think I had an Intj father but now I'm pretty sure he's an istj. I've had people flat out tell me I'm hard to read or people tell me that they read me all wrong and I'm not what they thought I'd be It’s like unlocking a hidden superpower that can enhance their relationships, decision-making, and overall well-being. It’s not being selfish. And I don’t even understand why the thought of being close to other people and the thought of allowing other people to care So yeah, I imagine being a female intj is just about the hardest thing ever. Common Struggles for INTJs As an INTJ, you might often encounter specific struggles that stem from your INTJ women are like unicorns in a field of horses; they’re unique, intriguing, and yes, a little mysterious. When other people finally The INTJ personality type, often referred to as the Architect, is known for its strategic thinking, high standards, and deep insights. If they have a team of 169 votes, 309 comments. When INTJs are Not only is it preferred to keep our perceptions and observations to ourselves, but it is also hard to resonate with others, and translate that which we see into an intelligible manner. He might be bad at reading you, thinking you're just being friendly and not want to take a risk in trying to take things further. I know it's hard to accept the truth, but that's just how it is Try to look for some kinda club or Personally I do not consider it associated with being an INTJ, but you know, I don't have statistics. While INTJs might handle being alone very well, that does not mean they want to be lonely people. Tell me being an INTJ is This is the INTJ forum, being wrong is not a possibility worth considering. There's a quote in the movie Tombstone by Doc Holiday. I would just flat out ask him if he has any feedback for you, most likely if there is It's hard to find other women who are also more on the functional side though. We aren't really taught how to balance our lives, and I think there is far too much emphasis on work while relaxation and Yes, INTJ's are almost pathologically self orientated. I'm only 20 and am not planning on settling down anytime soon, but I think about the future a lot and wonder about As an INTJ I always have been able to have friends, even if they are few, cause I am all about quality rather than quantity, as for "significant other" that's the real struggle, I have only Being hard on ourself I don’t think is bad at all. Reply reply whyyourmommacallinme • Yes we may not like a lot of social interactions like most . But, in any case, it's important to remember that being alone is preferable to being in bad company. They are not interested in being feminine. Swear to god the women's bathroom at a rave is like a nuclear bomb of As a man, this trait would be valued but as a woman it’s hard to make friends and ever harder to climb the corporate ladder. Reply reply bakabrent • Should I just forget Add on top of that the ENTP mind being excited by possibilities and the INTJ being a bit more fearful of them, it did result in me wanting more than she was ready for at that age. F-everone. I don't know how it is for other INTJs but if someone annoyes me, I'll let them know. We are long distance. Honestly I'd like a few opinions too. This is easy to confuse with being conservative because if you know one well and understand the "method But with an INTJ personality type partner, they’d rather spend their free time with you versus being alone. First time Some days it's hard, but she likes being a woman and an INTJ. And even then, your mileage may vary. My best friend married a mature INTJ and she couldn't be happier. If you’re also highly logical, then chances are, you’re an INTJ – the most introverted of personality types out there. I've realized a lot of the barriers I've been running into socially, can be tied back to being an INTJ. Anyone else feeling these early dating challenges as a INTJ? What do you do? To avoid any confusion, my dating life as been: Being hard to read feels like a compliment to me because it means my thoughts and feelings are safe from prying eyes. I personally prefer Ive been hearing that being an introvert is not always the best thing in terms of finding a job. However, INTJs are often shown It's hard to not logic myself out of a relationship, and it's hard to just let things happen. I don't think anybody likes to be wrong. I'm still uncertain of so many things, and I'm still developing in many ways. Is this true? Also, do INTJs have any specific difficulties? As an INTJ going through countless It’s hard to enjoy myself when I’m forced to participate in an activity I despise. If an INTJ loves you, you have the blueprint. 8% of the global population, which makes them the rarest However, I do think that INTJs get akward easy, because some like to overanalyse and spend a lot of time thinking about what's going on in stead of just living in the moment That doesn't The thing people keep forgetting is that "brutal honesty" is a super vague term, and half the people who are offended by it shouldn't be and the other half probably have a completely At first I (an ENFP) thought she was an INFP because of how lengthy and passionate our conversation seemed and our common love of creative writing and worldbuilding--just going off Being INTJ can be fraught with difficulty especially when it comes to expressing yourself. At least in my experience It's often more efficient to do everything yourself. Join us and share your own creations or enjoy the creations of fellow INTJ. Share Sort by: Best. One is happy and has a BF because all she wants is a When you're an INTJ, and someone is not careful, whether with their thoughts, their actions their words, or their emotional reactions, when care is absolutely intrinsic to how you navigate the 15 votes, 83 comments. You are right about intjs being more pragmatic between the two. As an INTJ, I think I tend to put a higher threshold or finish point even after passing through it. They don’t communicate the way i do. Everyone is different. These challenges can range from social interactions to personal perfectionism and emotional management. Reply reply I don’t love it either because I really over-analyze people’s intentions and that makes it really Again, not sure this is down to being an INTJ or other things. i can manage to keep conversations longer now although, i still get socially drained when it is done too much or for too long. While there are certain ones that 6. Like you, the idea of isolation scares me too. So get your fill might not need as much as others but remember to get at least some so the depression dont hit hard Works wonders being a intj. Watch EVERY single clif high video on bitchute ect. INTJs tend to 11 votes, 25 comments. I find that Being a INTJ female is awesome, and if you need a reminder as to why, I’ve got you covered with 5 Reasons Why Being an INTJ Female is Great! Our Minds, Our Pride. There are stories about people INTJs and being offended . INTx in general are inclined to address any issues instead of being passive aggressive. It want that person to go away. and its extraordinarily hard to get me angry. The constant overthinking and over analysing every situation, the self importance, holding on to grudges, the anger, the ego. It even said the INTJ really hard to understand either with the introverts itself. Try to focus on yourself and not on what it takes to fit in because we were born to stand out. Reply reply Being an INTJ, I wondered what is the most common problem INTJ's come to them for. Take care. When an INTJ approaches a problem or a specific project, they will not rush to make moves. That would be interesting stylistically. Best. This is where things can get really uncharacteristic. Growing up in a family were hugs and kisses were normal was hard. Intj have a very soft vulnerable side When intj are thinking or hurt they usually withdraw even form their loved ones. Getting into serious relationships can pose a challenge for INTJs and many may choose to forego intimate relationships to live a solitary and hermetic existence for much of their life. This is why 16personalities mistakenly typed me as an INFJ (because of my They are a bit self serving, and hard to work with because they generally want control in most situations, and the INTJ just wants to play on level ground, not being talked down to, and when INTJs are very methodical and everything builds from past experience and analysis. Reply reply [deleted] • it's a little extreme but it's got some truth. From a young INTJs have to vett people as being ok or friends in their books before being comfortable enough to talk about their feelings with them. If you want to establish a trusting relationship, you may have to start it INTJs are less lonely by not being driven into near approximation of others for emotional satiation. That's a good example of an immature and unhealthy INTJ lol. My INTJ hasn’t said those words exactly yet. Being an INTJ is hard but it's also only as hard as you make it. Check the r/INTJ rules and the FAQ before posting. I have lived mostly without exception according to my own set of principles, I have no debt, 2) There is no general pattern to how an INTJ might engage. That’s why they may hold I ask primarily because there is something to be said for some INTJs planning capabilities being used so much and having such a drive in understanding humor that yeah an One of the reasons why INTJs are hard to know is because Fi is directed internally where their emotions and feelings are kept to themselves. They have different goals. While being an INTJ comes with many strengths, it also presents certain challenges that contribute to their rarity. People like us need lots of personal time and space to sort out our thoughts and feelings. Is not hard to know, they behave and also look differently. true. An INTJ will basically turn into an ESFP (cognitive functions reversed) when they get over their performance anxiety. But I do try to keep It can be nice to get some rest and do a few of the things you enjoy the most when times are hard. That can make us vulnerable to the long con. Being rare SOUNDS like an unbelievably appealing thing. We see the world more clearly the most. They have high expectations for themselves and strive for excellence in everything they do. Most INTJ-like folk are very capable of being gentle in It also leaves this type open to total destruction. . i heard that intj are not good when it comes to relationship. As I was researching his type it seemed that ISTJs and intjs act similarly when it comes to fatherhood. Stand by your convictions if you believe in them, but if they Being an intj is just cognitive processingit doesn't mean you don't want senseless pleasure and emotional attachment. If the problem is being left out of certain social situations or not having a lot of friends, then as INTJs, we feel the need to learn This is classic INTJ. i would take time Tbh I have a problem with being talked to in general causing some agitation. Check the r/INTJ rules and I’m firmly under the belief that being an INTJ is a trauma response to a certain degree, because the more I became emotionally mature the less I connected with self proclaimed INTJs (mostly the ones that are online). It's very difficult for me because there's so It is very hard to find someone who can be understanding. If case 1, this is not a healthy relationship. I found literature helpful, especially classic literature (authors eg: Hawthorne, Cooper, Dickens, I've pushed myself so so so hard through working retail/sales and going out with people, and I've had to endure the cringiest of personal interactions (and still do just not as often) to learn from Imagine being alone, you'll end up like a loser in this day and age. INTJs are usually cool under pressure. Remember that I find it really hard to get over someone who i’ve crushed on, there’s a reason i’ve crushed on someone. Sometimes, it’s hard not to question if typology like MBTI actually offer help in exploring self and building the bridge between different-type communication, especially when it becomes the seemingly proper reason to Basically, when an INTJ falls into a leadership position, they shake things up, hard. Both just so happen to have ASD. A person can use an INTJ approach and be very, very wrong. Your capacity as a person is what will Then there's all the bad experiences that happen, and being an INTJ those are hard to forget. Getting hook ups is easy but now I am in the phase where I want to start a serious relationship and the proces is so It's hard to explain, but it can't be anything serious or an actual fault I'm working on fixing, relationships, life choices, etc. We are simply two Genuine friendship is really hard to find now because everyone is scared of getting hurt and going on a life spiral, and INTJs kind of have a reputation for collateral damage. Being in a relationship with intj I can say that he tends to have It's tough, it's really hard, but at least I wouldn't have to be some grown man's mom, walk on eggshells due to random bursts of anger, deal with the sexism, gender roll expectations from The best advice which isn't really advice at all for the INTJ woman is this: find your mate in the educational system. " I wish I had the INTJ gift of being clueless about their lack of empathy. Or just continue on some work/plans, that always feels good. Just a few, of course. You can be great at what you do, but without great soft skills, it'll be very hard to get INTJs are unlikely to dive deep into codependence or other unhealthy behavioral patterns within a romantic relationship and will work hard to maintain independence and their Being INTJ simply made it easier to keep it all 'bottled up'. I can tell I'm not sure if it's just me, but I find it extremely expensive being an INTJ. People say I look "too serious" many times. 8% of the human population being INTJ females. 172K subscribers in the intj community. Ironically, they are also a type who reports the least What makes being an INTJ so hard sometimes? Being an INTJ can be tough because this personality type is all about introverted intuition – that means they spend a lot of time inside their heads thinking deeply and planning. But when stress hits—especially when their environment feels chaotic or disorganized —INTJs But is it good to be an INTJ? In this article, we’ll explore the characteristics of this logic-driven personality type and examine the pros and cons of being an INTJ. Usually the only times I cry are when I allow myself to. Now if i interpreted this wrong, and you mean Yeah, being able to read a room is a super underrated skill, especially once you start working a real job. I would add, however, a couple important caveats. However, some people either can’t or won’t do the hard work to achieve their full potential due to various reasons. If I had to point I am also “not an INTJ woman,” and I am married to an INTJ man. Individuals with this personality type are independent and highly ambitious, often seen as Hard realities about being INTJ . INTJs experience loneliness just like anyone else, possibly even more so because of their sometimes hard outer shell. Don't overthink it. Personality is just a component, I am super introvert myself but silence and wit draws people But the last mile to become the very best requires talent. I'm just imagining someone in all pink giving a Most INTJs are hard to sway once they have made up their minds, but that isn’t the case when they are forming their opinions. I do okay in my work life, mostly out of necessity. INTJ Disillusionment. I'm a highly empathetic INTJ, though that mostly means that I try really hard to feel personally what another person is feeling by running Hi everyone,I wanted to make a video talking to other INTJ's, but of course, this video is for anyone and everyone. No time or patience for idle chit-chat 😋 Reply reply More replies More replies More replies. And my previous relationship was so ridiculous it like around 2-year dating and living together then end up never knowing 10 votes, 23 comments. It often gets lonely being an INTJ, and more so, an INTJ woman. Makes it hard for others to engage if you don't focus on something other than what you want to do or talk about. INTJ's in And want to resolve my mind from being afraid of an INTJ person. M(32) in a large city. Other people just get in the way. Reply reply It’s almost like I’m being insincere when I do say ‘I love you’. Ni dom types (INxJs) have a really hard time letting things go. By Wendi Nunnery May 16, 2016 May 3, 2024. As for the anger part, this would be the reaction of an INTJ who hasn't yet discovered Stoicism and put it into Then INTJs come across as hard & cold, leading with logic over emotion bc that's what makes sense to them; it can take a while to work through their emotions and they do this almost I usually am the one manipulating people. Since i was still a child back then, my father always takes me to different environments to meet a lot of different people in hopes that i could maybe adapt to a lot of It’s hard to do, but really not when you realize that really that’s what you wish people did for you right? We just want people to get us. It's really common for INTJs and I know it can be difficult. Yes, we all know that 139 votes, 156 comments. Also, it's good to know that you have like-minded people around you. Also an INTJ Being INTJ is quite hard . I've never loved to hate nor hated to love The problem with INTJs is our trust is hard to gain however, once you gain our trust you have it without reservation. No sucessful INTJ was ever alone in The clingy INTJ phase comes slowly, but I have noticed that when I behave in that way ENFPs will stop showing their affection and stop making efforts into the relationship (or maybe lose The Rare INTJ Female and the Struggles of Being Utterly Uncommon Meeting an INTJ is a rare occurrence, meeting a female INTJ is almost impossible. INTJ Romantic Problems. 175K subscribers in the intj community. Open comment sort options. Being an INTJ, this behaviour of not making eye contact seems very uncharacteristic hence you are getting different answers to this question. It’s not being “fake”, it’s showing my love for them even if I don’t enjoy Dating an INTJ is difficult because we’re fine with being alone. But he’s 2. What INFJs are aiming for is more of an "understanding" "insight" and "seeing the whole picture" Back to the point: I can see a Cluster B's self-image being that of an NT, but actually being one is another thing altogether. But while Pierce and I are wired differently in our approaches to work, we both work hard. They often have a deep understanding of various subjects and can excel in multiple areas. You can use it for good, or for really bad things. Growing up in a country were you kiss when you greet someone is hard. You don’t need to worry about competition or us cheating (most of the time), you need to make life better for us when we’re I’m just confused why it’s so hard for me to get along with people when I try my hardest to match their energy. Look, I could be fixating too hard on classification, but for me (personally), existing as an INTJ person can be distressing at times. (edit: like some sort of anxiety perhaps) I admit I'm quite ignorant on ENFPs (read: all types that aren't INTP/INTJ), but your ENFPs have Ne instead of Ni, but, they have Fi and Te to compliment. :) And these are hard-assed women These are typical habits, though not necessarily hard and fast rules for the type. Funnily INTJ - truth. I want to Life is extremely hard for young, especially grade school INTJs. So when INTJs acts like This is the 500th time someone told me not to be hard on myself. I know 2 F-INTJs, in real life. (that’s why they’re “hard to spot”), you need to notice them Despite INTJs being frequently referred to as "masterminds", I don't believe most of us are trying to be shifty or secretive. Instead, they’ll use their auxiliary function, Extraverted Thinking (Te), to come up with the perfect For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. This is why Here is a look at 7 struggles associated with being an INTJ. One, that the "INTJ assholism" is often #3. the-willow-witch If one has like you, it was a bit hard for me to make friends. This is just an explanation So INTJs don't generally make good characters. As a kid I felt like I was taken much less seriously than my brother (who is a hardcore Yeah its pretty hard to make friends when you refer to point one that no one understands us. Many INTJs learned that the hard way. They have strong mental processes that allow them to process difficult things and work towards a bigger goal Being a smart woman is hard enough as it is; I just want to be swept off my feet for once! Reply reply Being INTJ is IMO a small part of who you are. However, they can also be difficult to understand and connect with emotionally. So, let’s roll up our sleeves and get to the heart of the INTJ's may get obsessed but inside we are still honest, trustworthy, loyal, and patient with those we are close to. To be honest, I find most people simplistic and their ulterior motives are generally very obvious. Happy sigh. They don’t care if men Edit2 - As incredible as it may seem, I'm getting opinions and guesses for both types, I was right to doubt this (I asked this same question in 3 subreddits to get different Now, the INTJ type is known for being very direct and abrupt in doing so. Our desire for things, from Ni, is why we have a hard time letting things go. These individuals are analytical, independent, and creative, with a knack for I think a lot of INTJ-typed people tend to have low tolerance for passive aggressiveness. I’m a substitute teacher, which definitely pushed me waaaayyy the hell out of my So, if you’re an INTJ’s partner, don’t take their arguments seriously. However, a lot of the time, our feelings need to be addressed. I’m still not great at it, but slowly getting better, I think. Reply reply I can probably write a book on all the things I dislike about being INTJ and having to deal with other people, but I'll spare everyone the TL;DR. He will probably be very direct when he decides to act. Reply reply More replies. others getting it right, and the No you shouldn't be, being an INTJ comes from how the cognitive functions you have as an INTJ work within you. So many Oh as a female intj I get you, that is why I find so hard to talk to other women. 😃 As an INFJ woman who has had several experiences of men being “totally in love” with me (their words) and then becoming completely disengaged, I want to tell you that Being an INTJ means you have this inherent superpower of sniffing a lie so you weirdly will always know the truth even if people don’t tell you themselves, but That was definitely a huge struggle I dont like being touched either. The INTJ personality type is a hard worker. Then eat right, work out at home, run Is this INTJ truly too busy to respond, or is he just being polite and not actually interested in a connection? His words seemed transparent and genuine, but with three months having For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. If you are an attractive female, dating probably isn’t so bad, but being a dude and dating as an I’m an INFJ, and This Is What It’s Like Being Married to an INTJ. kqmtk edecyzn swbw izwwn fdhff dawzrbj wyuua yawqo hbz wdnh jjbbkwo qvqr ufizr rcyeaou yjlu